You are mentally divorced when you indulge in peeves, grudges, ill will, and hostility toward your marriage partner.

当你沉湎于焦躁、怨恨、憎恶、对你的婚姻伴侣不友善时，你在心理上已经离婚了。

You are mentally divorced when you indulge in peeves grudges ill will and hostility toward your marriage partner.

当你沉湎于焦躁、怨恨、憎恶、对你的婚姻伴侣不友善时，你在心理上已经离婚了。

You must build into your mentality the mental equivalent of what you want in a marriage partner.

你对你的婚姻配偶有何要求，你就必须要在你精神中建立起与之相当的心理状态。

She advises couples to take a fresh look at themselves and get creative about new ways to be a better marriage partner.

她建议夫妻们以一种新的眼光来看待自己，在经营婚姻的问题上有些创意，这样才能成为一名好的伴侣。

But if you commit your relationship to God and make a conscious decision each day to put God and your partner first, your marriage will be able to weather any storm.

但如果你向上帝坦白你们的关系，并每一天都理智地将上帝和你的另一半放在第一位，你的婚姻将能挺过任何一场风暴。