There is no give and take, as the controller is uncomfortable and bossy if you want to make a choice about something.

那是不容商量的，因为如果你想对某件事做出选择，控制狂会不安且专横。

You have the right to make a choice, but you should be responsible for it.

你有选择的权利，但你应该为自己的选择负责。

In reality, many women are forced to make a choice between family and career.

在现实中，有许多妇女被迫在家庭和事业之间作出抉择。

So you have to make a choice.

所以你必须做出个选择。

We each had to make a choice.

我们每个人都必须做出选择、