Miss not from already, grief cannot provide for oneself, happiness can be.

思念不能自已，哀痛不能自理，幸福不能自予。

Thoughts can't own, pain cannot provide for oneself, the result can't come undone, happiness can be.

思念不能自己，痛苦不能自理，结果不能自取，幸福不能自予。

Miss not from already, pain cannot provide for oneself, the result can't himself, not to the happiness.

思念不能自已，痛苦不能自理，结果不能自取，幸福不能自予。

Worker do sth without authorization asks all fee of doctor pay a home visit all provide for oneself by him worker.

职工擅自请医生出诊的一切费用，均由职工本人自理。

If this project is inside hodometer, and did not make clear provide for oneself, that cannot ask you provide for oneself.

如果这个项目在行程表内，且没有注明自理，那就不能要求你们自理。