Are they right your incivility?

他们对你非礼了吗？

It is gross incivility to refuse answer when spoken to.

当人家找你说话时拒绝答应是极其无礼的事。

Was not this some excuse for incivility, if I was uncivil?

即使我刚才真是无礼，难道这不是我无礼的某种起因吗？

Does anyone doubt that we live in an age of incivility, of distrust of other cultures?

有人怀疑过我们处在一种粗野、不信任其他文化的时代里？

He refuses to return incivility from incivility, because then he would no longer be in command of his own conduct.

他不以怨报怨，那样，他将不再是自己行为的主宰。