When someone in another car cuts you off on the highway, your reflexive thought may be, That jerk! He could have hit me! I can't let him get away with that! The more you stew, the angrier you get.

当另一辆车在高速公路上截你的路时，你的本能反应可能是：那个混蛋！他差点撞到我！我不能让他得逞！你想得越多，就越生气。

Incorporate peer reviews, and if you don't have the right people on staff, contract with IBM to get someone from ISSW to review it for you and give you feedback.

邀请同行参加评审，如果在您的技术人员中找不到合适的人选，可以与IBM签约，让ISSW的某个成员来替您进行评审，并向您提供反馈。

I recruited someone I trusted with my children's lives and I let her get on with it.

我聘用了一位我可以将孩子的生命交托在她手中的人，然后就放开了手。

Your ability to get someone else to take on the job with the same enthusiasm that you would have is an exercise in personal persuasion.

在个人说服力训练当中，有一项能力是让别人拥有和你一样的热情去工作。

Have you ever wondered how much someone else spends on groceries to get an idea of how you're doing with your grocery spending?

你是否曾经想知道别的家庭和你的家庭在食品开支中的花费是多少呢？