Yet if someone has a different philosophy of child-rearing, we instantly feel judged and lash back.

是的如果有人有一套与众不同的育儿哲学，我们会马上判断、抨击它。

If your first reaction is to lash back at the person giving the criticism, or to become defensive, take a minute before reacting at all.

如果你的第一反应是对批判你的人予以反击，或者变得充满防御性，请稍等一会再作出反应。

I had an irrational flash of hating those people in the back of wanting to lash out but all that really mattered was keeping my body between Fan Ping and the railing in case he made another lunge.

我有一股冲动想揍后面的这些人，狠狠的教训他们，但是现在最要紧的是用我的身体挡住范平，以防他再次向前冲过栏杆。

If you are challenged, you take it as a personal affront and tend to lash out and fight back in a vengeful manner.

如果你是挑战，你把它作为个人的侮辱，往往批评，并争取在报复性地回来。

Lash sat back, and in the fine tradition of prowler commanders everywhere, he practiced exuding patience.

莱什坐回去，不论何处的巡游艇指挥官都有好传统，他老练的散发出耐心。