It's not an obligation put on your shoulder by others. It is the desire for a better self that takes rootdeeply in your heart. It is a positive life-attitude.

它不是外界对你的逼迫，而是你自己内心对更进一步的渴望，是一种积极向上的生活态度。

Some parents prepare a bundle of wild grass to be planted in the green garden outside the new room to mean that their daughter will root deeply in the family and live prosperously.

有些父母还会准备一把野草，种在新房外的花园里。希望他们的女儿能融入新的家庭，生活蒸蒸日上。